What Zizamele pours into Fefe's cup!!

- Loving discipline (teach her to pick up after herself as you will not be picking staff after her).

- Fatherly guidance

-Good dreams and a good vision

- Protection and advocacy (Fefe's pro-bono competent lawyer)

Buy umntwana a rabbit ufanele umntwana akwazi kokwabo

-Xa ndilele kwi sleep over the first question is uphi uFefe?

-Listens when I talk about Fefe

- Uye wombona ke uFefe - That is the first thing he asked "Uphi uFefe"

- When I said I will take the bus to EC but Fefe will be affected esikolweni, he will say yeka some other time if Fefe is affected. Andifuni into ezophazamisa isikolo.

-He listens and engages when I talk about uFefe

-Listens when I talk ngoFefe and engages. Apha waye dissappointed yi OR Tambo ngezithole kodwa he did not make it about him but Fefe.

- He asked izolo - 20.04.2023 out of the blue. Uphi uFefe on our evening call. Ndathi ulele.

-23/04/2023 Still calls early, early, early hours ehlamba to show me his dick and give me great advice on not changing isikolo sikaFefe. On how it will affect her relationships, confidence and dating. Wathi mandifune uNanny netransport qha!!

- Listens xa ndithetha ngoFefe - 08.05.2023. Then says kanti khange umse eclinic?

-If I tell her ukuba uFefe uyagula then voluntarily in a call uzobuza unjani uFefe noba udinwe kangakanani (wayetyale thousands yezithole). After that uzothi Ooo.

-Protection, protection, protection

-Children are born with the inherent need for love and affection

-Children have inherent expectations

-I have to meet my daughter/children's expectations

- HE IS ALWAYS GUARDED AROUND CHILDREN WHO ARE NOT ADULTING WELL BECAUSE THEY WERE GIVEN EVERYTHING IN A SILVER PLATTER..........I LEARNT THAT IS MOLLY CUDDLING.

- Descipline but yet Fefe's advocate

- He sometimes greets both of us in the morning and that means a lot to me

- Uzobunja ukuba unjani na uFefe hopes ukuba both of us silele kakuhle