Learnings from my husband

• Poor parenting skills can lead to raising criminal children at old age - 17 June 2025

Intimacy prayer (Usimakade efakazela izwi lakhe)

Here’s your message rewritten neatly, organized into sections for clarity while keeping the tone reverent and true to the original meaning:

Personal Reflection & TimingToday the Lord spoke many things to me during our time of intimacy. I am only writing them down now, about 12 hours later, because I was caught up in my own matters and asked the Lord for time to process and record them.

Sis Nosi, the Lord is doing a new thing

Asanda adoption

1. Family – Being the Light

• The Lord said that for the Sobantwana family, I am the light.

• I must never close the door to them, but instead keep it open, waiting for them to come. The Lord said they will stumble and grope in darkness and they will even come at night to seek guidance.

• I should not go to them but wait, but when they seek guidance, correction, or light, I must share it freely.

• They stumble in darkness and will continue to do so unless they change.

• The Holy Spirit said to me that my role is to be the light and salt in the family because the family needs it.

• That is why I was born KwaSobantwana

2. Marriage & Estates

• The Holy Spirit said my husband is my “one and a half” (1½).

• That I should not betray him, he is recovering from betrayal

• He will respect me as far as represent God

• At the right time, this man will marry me.

• ELusikisiki we are elders not Pastors in the body of Christ. We are designed to provide support to Pastors.

• He has a funny way of doing things, he will marry me when the time is right with a plain gold Grandmothers ring, and he will marry me when God says so, when the timing is right.

• No matter the obstacles put for me him in our wedding he will fight, overcome and prevail.

• I should support him by all means not necessarilly financial (a little bit) but with words, confidence, believing in him and standing by his side.

• He has been humiliated, undermined and as a none entity a lot, family members are starting to take him seriously because of me. I am the reason his family takes him seriously

• KwaMagazi the Lord has sat fear to the family members there. They love me and listen to me as their favourite Makoti because the Lord has set his fear upon the people and I am the light.

• That our marriage will work amidst all the odds and we will be a very happy and carefree couple. When seek marital advice we should take the back to the Lord and not seek our Glory.

• We should not join estates because:

  • We are each other’s backup.

  • We have different tribes: he is an aggressive risk-taker in business, I am a slow, steady, consistent person in finances.

• Joining estates would cause unnecessary conflict.

• The Lord is using us in separate ways to build, and in the end, both estates will work together for His good purposes.

3. Children & Family Prophecies

• About a baby boy at 45 years (as long as I will be married Lord ndingahlazisi ivangeli), Z will not take him to the initiation school. The Lord will reprimand Him strongly.

• Fefe will get all my estate. Nzolo will get all his Fathers estate. The Lord has judged that way.

• The baby boy's name is Siyabonga (God's name), Nzolo(my name) Magazi

• He will be a very health baby boy.

• The Lord will strongly convict his father not to take him to circumsion school, they will just go to the restaurent and talk as man who will willingly serve the Lord with conviction and commitment. Xa ethi thwala ngoba ithi iBhayibile qhiya entloko ize ndivume zonke eza extremes because he will be expressing devotion to the Lord. There comes a time when he will give me freedom again as he matures in Christ.

• I will not have to force this—he will do it voluntarily.

• This father will fight through resistance against our lobola and marriage and prevail. He will be steadfast in his request.

• The Lord has given me authority over the Magazi people, just as Moses spoke as God to Aaron.

• I am to remain gentle, speak life, and not complain to Z, especially toward this Kingpriest Z who has been undermined, ridiculed, and hurt before.

• His family has started to take him seriously because of my presence.

• He will love my daughter and as her daughter deeply, giving her a double portion always.

• He has his own way of doing things; I must honor and support him.

Body of Christ

• I am to offer strong support for Mfundisi Themba, possibly including financial support.

• There will never be any relationship between me and him other than that of brother and sister in the Lord and fellow workers in Christ.

4. Future Marriage & Children

• My daughter will marry a loving, God-fearing white (race) husband who serves the Lord.

• She will live freely and succeed, breaking boundaries, achieving wealth, and serving God as a free-spirited person.

• My son, Siyabonga (also called Nzolo), will be stable and consistent like his father but not sickly. Will do exploits. Siyabonga will be a healthy baby conceived in marriage, Even in older age.

• He will excel in life and business and have many children.

• My daughter and her husband will also have many children as Lord provides and they have prayed.

5. Ministry Vision - Dr Khaya Tyatya - Gathering of the remnant.

• The vision is for a non-church, vulnerable movement—like evangelists pitching a tent, preaching, and moving on—addressing pain points in the Body of Christ as revealed by God.

• I should support this work, similar to how Mam Sibongile runs “Intimacy prayer.”

• I will also be asked to pastor Fountain of Abundant Life when the current leader steps down—done openly and not in secret.

• There will be demonic opposition, even deadly attacks, but I will always prevail and see the salvation of the Lord. Like at close proximity I see the Lord just a wosulula konke. With a naked eye. I will not even have to lift a finger.

• I must not be intimidated by the fierceness of the attacks.

6. Ministry Roles & Prophetic Assignments

• I will live in the South. Basonia. Between the Vaal and Johannesburg to be available for midweek ministry.

Vacations

• My vacations must never take away my intimacy with God, like Eve being deceived in the Garden of Eden. Bawo ndicela ungandikhuphi kuzo tana tuu. Please Moy'ongcwele.

  
  

7. Work at NWU

• The Lord has blessed me at North-West University to be the most favored Black researcher and academic.

• Professors will need me more than I need them.

• My mission is to protect students, discipline where needed, and never sell them out for personal gain.

• Strikes will never be blamed on me, even though I work closely with students.

• The Lord will open doors for Joel and Thato through my position; afterward, these opportunities will close.

• I will have unprecedented growth at NWU without needing to move elsewhere.

9. Spiritual Warfare & Family Deliverance

• In every fight I face, I will prevail if I remain committed to God.

• I must continually pray for my brother, as his deliverance will come in stages. He will prevail.

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Closing PrayerLord, I pray that my children, family, and ministry will succeed.May I remain the light in my family, faithful in my calling, protected from deception, and steadfast in Your service.In Jesus’ name, Amen.

8. Adoption - Asanda

I should adopt her as my daughter. Yhoo I was so discouraged by her behaviour but what uBawo I have the love kwalento ndimnyamezele enetshiki. Uthe uzothi chatha istrength and the patience.

• I should adopt my goddaughter as my own.

I am the light to her.

No longer a sister but daughter.

She struggling with seeing cleary and vision. Xa ndikude ufathuza ebumnyameni.

Xa ndikufutshane wenza right decisions abone cleary. Laa nto yayitshiwo nguNasiphi.

I should always support her develop. Azakhele umzi wakhe. Like I saw her beatiful grey house.

Xa emkile uzophinde abuye. Zozibuyela. She will not got that far. Akambalanga uThixo elifeni. She will overcome umona.

Big Sis Nosi

Absa is an end of an era.

The Lord is doing a new thing so that azoba nespeedy recovery aphume kwi medication.

Sizobona why bekudingeka aphume eAbsa.

She is going to do nursing.

She is going to be a strong light kwa Nursing. Laa nurse ogentle onika itestimony yehope. To lost and hopeless patients kwiprivate hospital. She will practice longer.

She will leave drug free.

You are the Lord said many things today we intimacy I think I'm pending them 12 hours from when they were uttered yeah which is actually being caught up in my own things and asking for time to turn them out in the Lord one of the first things that the Lord said is that at this one on the family I am the light that I should not close the door for this one in the family I should always leave the door open and not go to them but rather wait for them when they come to me because they will all they are they are only stumbling in darkness and they'll always stumble in darkness I guess then if they don't change but that's what the Holy Spirit don't say that but but that's what the Holy Spirit the the the other part is what was said by the Holy Spirit so I must not close I must not close that door but I must always share the light whenever they seek light whenever they seek guidance seek correction when they whenever they seek correction whenever they seek correction they whenever they sick right and so on that's not close the door must not close the door the resonance born into this one and the family it was to be the light to be the salt um to be the light in the family the family needs the light and #2 the other thing the Holy Spirit said it was about to set this set is my husband is my 1 1/2 and that we should not join estates because we are each other we are each other's backup and also we've got different tribes he is an aggressive risk taker in business and I'm a low steady consistent person and in how I do finances so joining the estate would make us fight constantly so the Lord is using us in separate ways in building our states that I should continue building separately and he should continue building separately it will all together work for the Lord for good in the end also about the childhood for the five years that it will be held the baby boy and that they have been disabled be taken to the initiation school and the Lord will strongly convict the father and the father will desire nothing but to serve the Lord and also that he would rather me I would I would not even have to do anything literally I don't know if she said yes I don't have to do anything I don't have to do anything he will do it voluntarily but there should be plain ring but he would have given it to his nose after he would have given it he would have given it his all and he will do it because the Lord says he must do it and he will do it with commitment and conviction and no matter the resistance resistance he will fight and he'll prevail also the Lord said he has given me and authority to the savanna people just like Moses spoke a squad to Aaron I am given that capacity and the power to speak as God unto them and also unto that yeah and and also that I should continue being gentle continue speaking life unto him not complain but speak life he has been undermined he has been ridiculed in the Lord and I must not betray him because the Lord is he has been had before he has been broken before he has been humiliated ridiculed he's been undermined and recused journal entity that people thought he was joking when he started this flipping thing and because I'm there the people in his family starting to take him seriously as a man and as a person and his career that I will know in due time that he was ahead in the broken man and that it was really hit undermined and ridiculed also by a woman and also that is he's going to teach you how to love my daughter and her daughter and you will love him you'll give him double he'll give her double potion and and potions and more than his son because of their adoption and also that he's got a way of doing his he's got a way of doing things that should not get to me or get into me they they they way he does things that I should honor him and support him in in in many things and also that I should support as that I should really support him from September and that I should support them from September a lot in their endeavours support because it sounded like financial support and that you must not be the one that always calls Satan must also call and that there will never be any relationship between me and him other than that of her brother and the sister in the Lord of fellow workers and the Lord what's the other one uh that you know 5-4 would marry her loving husband white pasta that will love and serve that loves serves the Lord that loves and serves the Lord and it will become it and and that if I paid would be a free spirited uh person as an adult in that ohh the sun's name is sia bong and then I'm adding it's all ohh and so to my cousin and that and that he'll be stable and consistent man just like the father but he will not be sickly and he will do very well in life and in business will pick up after the father and that the faithful do very well together with their husband and that's been real server completely love her completely and will be a husband that fears the Lord and will have children that she asked and the son will also have many children and also people have many children as they've asked but she'll be free spirited then as in as an adult ohh Lord I pray that she succeeds well pray that my daughter succeeds breaks boundary breaks boundaries achieves wealth and and sense unto you as a free spirited person please in the name of Jesus about the vision come from the soya that it's not going to be a non it's a non church movement that he is the Lord wants us to start it's a vulnerable movement a vulnerable moment just like evangelists pitching a tent preaching and going addressing pain points in the body of Christ according to the revelation just like her mama's wrongly runs intimacy that's how the gathering of the remnant will run that I should support him ohh and also a function of abundant life that the Lord had the right ohh that also is a balloon mirror me at the right time at the right time at the right time he will he will marry me and also that that uh that I will be asked by man who me to pastor a fountain of abundant life when she steps down when she decides to step down and listen and sit on the chair that it will not be done by a back door it will be done by in broad daylight and there will be there will be demonic attacks there will be oppositions there'll be almost deadly attacks but I will always prevail I'll always prevail I'll always see the picture of the Lord close at hand and I'll see the move of God close at hand and the Lord will always destroy the people will always destroy any attacks against be that Ms. must not be intimidated by how fiery the attacks will be at fountain of life and that also D ohh man the faith is that of is is is is that a first schizophrenic woman yeah schizophrenic woman and then I begged the Lord for her not to endure such humiliation but but yeah i don't know i And then I'll leave but as time goes on I live in the South I live between Val and Joburg so that I'm close for midweek service in the ministry I did ask the Lord that I stay in the valve Monday to Friday and then weekends I go to drawback so I I don't know I think he gave me leeway on that and also that part patients should not that the measure in the vocations is that they should not take away the intimacy that I have with God just like the serpent deceived eve in the garden of Eden the second deceived eve in the garden of Eden and when he deceived eve they ran away from the presence of God so when evocation makes me run away from the presence of God then that's not the one which should change my ways and and also that Samantha will be will be a healthy baby even if he will be a baby conceived in old age and I'll conceived him in marriage ohh she says yeah I'm I'm I'm sorry for laughing thank you ohh and and and that the Lord has blessed me at northwest university and that'll be the most favored black researcher and academic that I'll always be favored that that I've got it seems as if I've got leveraging power with professors and the Lord wants me to to to protect the students because the system acts as if it's designed for the students and it's not designed for the students so I must always be that bridge that protects the students that are should not sell out students for a promotion but professors should take me as who I am and they must need me not the other way round and I must always stick to the approach of supporting disciplining and protecting students rebuking what is wrong and that strikes will never be pinned on me even though I work closely with the students and also that I'll be so favored that I'll be so favored that where the Lord is taking me out open doors for Joel and Toto and after that the the doors will shut because the white people will wake up not what I'm still there in power but when my tenant has ended and tattoo and jellies in then they will wake up and they will not take other people that come after me seriously people of black color that I'll experience unprecedented growth at northwest university that there will be no need to move to another university or that I never even said would happen or that i thought that i never thought that i never even imagined would happen in terms of growth and acceleration is gonna come at noon The adoption and that I should adopt him my to God as a daughter and yeah and also and also in every fights I go through I'll always prevail no one will ever overcome me if I stay committed to you I'll always prevail in any fighter go through what's the other one that I should pray for my brother that the Lord is going to deliver him and is going to deliver him in in in stages that I should pray for him and not stop praying for him yes yes that's what I said save the world it's it's not like thank you baby for the plane steak