What Zizamele pours into my cup!!

-Constant communication for hours at his cost

- Life and academic advice

-Respect and ukundicingela in many things that might inconvenience me

-Financial peace

- Accepting, loving and participating in my child's life

-Listening to my problems and giving me moral, emotional support ade axolise ongathi kumoshe yena phofu yena abe estressed

-No financial abuse

-Vulnerability and integrity

- Impressing me by going to church

-He trusts me

-He holds me in high regards

-Patience and respecting my faith and values

- Logical and hearty leadership

-Loving correction

- Beautiful birthday songs, thoughtful birthday craft gifts (a beautiful collage of me and him and a yellow rose. He was so broke as a pulp but he was thoughtful with what he had at his disposal to show me love........That is what caught my attention the rising above the occasion and not feeling small.............the effort of cutting, cropping and pasting and generating a new collage....priceless).

- He pours transparency, trust around his travels and health (He trust me with his test results).

- He takes seriously my advice seriously/

- 28.03.2023 The office of the MEC tell him that they are coming for a sight visit on the 29.03.2023. This was such a big day for him but I was very tired. Wanted to cry because of the renovation works in our Fleurhof property. He listened to me and continued pouring Fatherly advice. He did not steal the light tuu

- 28.03.2023 The office of the MEC tell him that they are coming for a sight visit on the 29.03.2023. This was such a big day for him but I was very tired. Wanted to cry because of the renovation works in our Fleurhof property. He listened to me and continued pouring Fatherly advice on how I should raise UnoFefe. He did not steal the light tuu. He empathetically listened.

- I had a boil 27/28/29 and he gave me good advice beno Sis Nothemba lokuba ndiye ePhamarcy kuGqirha waphaya nyani labhodloka ithuma. He constantly checked up me ukuba linjani ithumba. Thank you Lord.

-He remembered that I had a dinner dater with Sandisiwe.

-Wished my daughter well in getting a scholarship abroad.

-When I am disturbed or in pain he apologises okungathi iphethe yena.

-He affirms his love to me verbally.

-Prays for me to succeed in my research

-Willing to drive me to my sisters wedding, so excited ngathi kutshata yena. Asking about the wedding theme. Even offered ukuba ndiyolala kokwabo so that we are early. This time around so bold about the car being parked to the parents.

- Fidelity (calling me weee hours of the morning).

-Telling me about intimate staff happening kwi family yakhe

Bhut Sisa, ibhokwe efileyo, accusations, Mfundwana, uDods

- Needing me sexually and charming me and making me comfortable!!

- Impresses by going to church all of a sudden umntu obethe yena akanandaba nePasika and communications zoba uphi at any time.

- Call me wee hours of the morning x 4 (4am)

- Calls me immediately when I am stressed to hear what is going on when I cry to him - 17.04.2023

- Still calls me before alale

-Akandingxolisi okanye akhalale okanye angandi trusti ngokungabambi iphone. He is very forgiving 19/04/2023

-Once I say I need him he responds very fast telephonically saying what happened - April 2023

-He agreed xabendimcela ukuba silande my family eBizana for umtshato eXopo nokundikhapha. He is very considerate of my 02nd mother's feelings. He defended her kulento yokuthwala ootshomi.

-Z is smart. Emotionally and intellectually. Uyayigada into exabanisa abantu.

-He still calls me 5 am and calls me "Nanaza"

- 23/04/2023 still calls me 5 am in video calls to show me his dick sihlambe sonke and also give fatherly advice on Fefe not changing schools.

-He took HIV test for me even though ebesoyika engafuni wazincama at my request - 24.04.2023

- He is not about my money at all. Like akafuni mali yam tuu!!

- Never judges but seeks to understand and if he sees something then he addresses it peacefully

-Words of comfort when I am scared.

-He communicates voluntarily his whereabouts - 12 May 2023 - The level of respect though!!

- He respects and does not seek to control me

-He recognises and accepts that I am a mother

-The response and the level of ownership though

- Did you finish your Masters? Ndimxelele phofu Sartuday before aye kwi Grad Monday he asked. The support though towards my Masters Degree.

- I was hurt thinking I am demoted at work and he was there.....very there and he listened and said do not stress ngento ongayaziyo first have a meeting uve ukuba what is really going on and thinking if he is even answering the right questions. He was broke he followed with a call in the morning and he was worried when he could not get hold of me - 22/06/2023 and he was right. I was not demoted at all.

- He still calls no matter how broke - 4 months later

- He regards me as his stress reliever

- Even if I offend him ndimothuse ndingaphenduli iphone imini yonke he still loves me

- He took me to see both his family and he was proud of me and our daughter the way uBhuti welcomed us it was beyond this world. Umntwana wam was treated as a princess. Cherised by the Magazi family nabo Sis Lusanda.

- He appreciates the small big things I do for him and he learns

- When ethethe wrong uyakwazi ukuxolisa genuinely

- When I am sad he gives me the right counsel ngento zasemsebenzi he is very supportive. I learnt from there that he is a man of a strong strenght/courage and peace.

- When I am not happy about us not seeing each other he calls immediately to explain himself so that I do not stay sad. He cares about my feelings.

- Runs business decisions with me and he listens -17/08/2023

-17/08/2023

After i told him I believe in him