My vows to you Z in our relationship!!

-Never to change you. I choose to accept you as you are. Everyone deserves to be accepted.

- Not frustrate uZizamele. He loves family and hosting. He is a warm person naturally. He is Godly.

- To accept the way he communicates

- I choose to make you aware that you are King and serve you accordingly. Christ calls us King Priests.

-I vow never to undermine your intelligence. You are very very smart.

-I vow not to take sides kuchuku lwakho noBhut Thabo.

- I vow to pray for your 300% salvation

-I vow to allow you to win conversations xa sithetha just boost your ego.

-I vow to care about your emotions and feelings.

-I vow to allow you to lead and not find you incompetent in the role of the leader in our home. You are a good leader and I am not intimidated.

-I vow ukungakubhanxi.

-I vow not to tarnish your image but to uplift it. You are good man worthy to be praised.

-I vow to allow you to grow and carve your own path in life and reach high standards.

-I vow to believe that you are a man of God and you have His Grace.

-I vow not to baby you. Umdala and uyakwazi ukuqiqa

-I vow not control you

-I vow not to accuse you with my insecurities - Passed 14.05.2023

-I vow to be patient with you in working out what meaningful marriage and family life means to you and when you are ready to take that lifelong step with me and Fefe of course.

-I vow to be your healing and thought partner in your journey of life.

-I vow to believe in you because you are that good and even in seasons when you are not good I vow to see you good.

-I vow to be patient in your slowness towards commitment. I know one day you will marry me for the right reasons even though I am sure that engagement ring nelobola newedding day will come as a complete surprise ndingayilindelanga and nalo proposal iyobe ishwamza ndingeva noba uthini. I forgive you in advance ngokungakwazi ukushela. All I know I will hear "Nyhani, really x 100, family nton nton"

-I vow to forgive your minor unintentional offences or mistakes. You are not a malicious, cold, aloof nor a cruel person. Those will be pure mistakes and I know you will be accountable for them and give me comfort that it was unintentional and you profusely apologise and repent. - Passed 14.05.2023. I understood when ebenganakanga iphone yakhe

-I vow to support you in your family life and perspective of family and minimalist identity.- Passed 14.05.2023 (I encouraged him to bond with his family yoJwarha eMthatha, then thina sothetha later naseNgcobo)

-I vow to support your farming and never make you choose between me, our family and it. It is what you love and you are good at it. Even in dry seasons I vow to support you and see as a good and profitable farmer.

-I vow to believe in you even when you no longer believe in yourself as a businessman.

-I vow to pray for you, pray for us and our family all the time to succeed in Christ and our family life.

-I vow to make your life easy and never complicate it.- Passed 14.05.2023 (I encouraged him to bond with his family yoJwarha eMthatha, then thina sothetha later)

-I vow to bring fun, joy, acceptance, commitment, romance, health priorities and care to your life. Passed 31/05 - 04/06 birthday weekend

-I vow to serve you and allow you to shine just like Ps Phumi allowed Pa to shine and Dr SY Govender was allowed by Rochele and Thamo by Marollene - Photoshoot and bubblebath 03 June.

-I vow to see you beautiful noba awuhlambanga and never undermine your image. Ulinene - - Photoshoot and bubblebath 03 June.

-I vow to listen to your fears and face them with you preferable all your life - 01 June 2023 appointment.

-I vow to see you, uplift your authority and hear your voice kwizinto ezinoKrestu not ezi zamadlozi.

-I vow not to humiliate you and belittle your dignity - 12062023

-I vow not allow financial woes from your business make me undermine your authority and your masculinity - 12062023

-I vow to be romantic with you all the time we meet - Photoshoot and bubblebath 03 June.

-I vow to accept that you really love my daughter and that you care about her entire childhood and adult life and that you are a present loving and accepting father throught her entire life - This manifested 31 May 2023 - 04 June 2023 Zizamele and his family love our daughter.

-I vow to play with you and dance with you - Photoshoot and bubblebath 03 June.

-I vow to be your best friend sidlale sonke.

-I vow to communicate clearly with you - Passed 14.05.2023 (I encouraged him to bond with his family yoJwarha eMthatha, then thina sothetha later)

-I vow to be close to you and be your bestie and cheerleader

-I vow to encourage you and cheer you up.

-I vow not to borrow you money.(lols). My relationship with you is far more important uku destroyer yimali. I will when the Holy Spirit prompts me not xa kutsho idorpemine

-I vow not to let you loose your identity, whatever that is to you.- Passed 14.05.2023 (I encouraged him to bond with his family yoJwarha eMthatha, then thina sothetha later) plus to see Bhut Dman nabantu bakwaDlwati ngo June 2023

-To support and comfort you when you are sick - June 2023

- I vow never to cheat on you through the power of the Holy Spirit, never to disrespect you, undermine you and betray your trust or hurt your feelings by taking your whole hearted love for granted - June 2023. Who I saw kwa Bhut Dman to my daughter, I will cherish forever. The ownership, the gutso, the prioritisation, your leadership....wow. I thank God because it melted my fears away.

-I vow to allow you to be Fefe's father according to the will of God.

- Not to cheat to you in act, thought and speech with any ex or crush or any man in the futurr