My vows to myself in this beautiful relationship no Z
- Phathiswa Moyo
- May 13, 2023
- 2 min read

-I vow to grow in my understanding of motherhood the relationship I have with my daughter whilst growing in our love no Z
I vow not ignore myself care or loose myself or identity whilst growing in our beautiful relationship.
-I vow make Z feel loved, respected and appreciated.
-No 50/50 in relationships, allow the man to lead in love.
-Their love is shown in provision and I reciprocate in appreciation, respect and love.
-I vow not to allow myself to be abused in any form.
-I vow to allow Z to lead me in love and submit to his love.
-I vow to allow uZizamele to love me completely as directed by God and receive his love.
-I vow to receive nurturing from Z, accept it and not reject it
-I vow to accept the money and any gifts Z blesses me with and not reject it
-I vow to embrace my personal dreams and goals whilst growing in our God given wonderful relationship.
-I vow to embrace my personal wealth, growth and property whilst growing in our God given wonderful relationship.
-I vow to prioritise and make time for self care within our wonderful relationship
-I vow to be honest and not hold back my feelings, thoughts and emotions
-I vow not to allow our relationship to change how our relate to God or worship Him. Instead it must enhance our connection with God.
-I vow not be hard on myself when I make mistakes
-I vow to be honest if I am not happy with something in our relationship
-I vow to love myself and have a healthy relationship with myself whilst growing in our relationship
-I vow to ask for help when I need one from Z
-I vow to be emotionally vulnerable to me and Z (how I feel)
-I vow to accept the beautiful love Zizamele is giving me and not undermine it
-I vow to be emotional connected to myself and Z whilst enjoying our relationship
-I vow to embrace and grow with my friends and accept their love whilst I am also growing in our relationship
-I vow not be bored with my whatsapp's when Z is too busy and not communicating. The Lord has blessed me with good relationships and friendships with other people and I enjoy them.
-I vow to take myself on personal romantic dates whilst growing in our relationship no Z
-I vow to grow within my education and career whilst growing in our relationship no Z
-I vow to nurture my talents and hobbies whilst growing in our relationship no Z
-I vow to accept provision from Z and not reject and tell him when I need something
-I vow to innitiate communication half the times and also allow him initiate communication half the time in order to allow reciprocation in our communication.
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