Classes from a relationship coach

-We make rules for the people we do not like, we are flexible with people we like.

-Never be scared of loosing someone than loosing yourself

- SUBMISSION IS ALLOWING THE MAN TO LOVE YOU, ALLOWING HIM TO PROVIDE FOR ME. NOT TO ALWAYS BE "I GOT THIS".

-NO COMPROMISE, I AM FOR SHARED ALIGNMENT, SHARED VISION, SHARED UNDERSTANDING, SHARED COMMONALITY AND SHARED AGREEMENTS.

-IN ORDER FOR HIM TO STAY FOCUSED FOR A LONG TERM HIS NEEDS MUST BE MET

COMPROMISE IS NOT FROM GOD

HAVE A RELATIONSHIP CHECK IN

LOOKING FOR BONDING SPACES WHERE THERE ARE NO DISTRACTIONS, SERENE SPACES

the expedient acceptance of standards that are lower than is desirable.

"sexism should be tackled without compromise"

-FREQUENT GREAT SEX WITH EACH OTHER IS A GREAT BOND. IT RELEASES OXCITOCIN

expediently accept standards that are lower than is desirable.

"we were not prepared to compromise on safety"

-Do not over analyse trivial staff of the past

-HAVE A 3RD PARTY COACH FOR COMMUNICATION AND CHECK IN NOT WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WRONG. A THERAPEUTIC SPACE.

-DONT FIND AN EQUAL BUT SOMEONE WHO YOU DO AMAZING AND UNSTOPPABLE GOOD THINGS TOGETHER

-Stop holding on to your little stories but be committed to the truth

-MEN WANT PEACE

-Allow him to have authority and make him visible and also a priority

- Wait to be sure before you show goodness

-Love is about giving. What are both parties willing to give to each other

- I am not the problem in sharing love but people I gave to were the problem so I will punish myself and not love again.

-You can't have a false sense of security in a relationship. A relationship can't be based on what I do for a person but rather what they do for me and how I reciprocate that.

-I can't choose a project, it is a symbol of safety but no excitement and fulfilment.

-He will cheat and get high value with another woman.

- A safe choice is usually a wrong choice

-Don't choose a fixer upper in the delusions of leverage.

-Get a relationship coach and therapy.

-Letting go does not mean it cannot workout later.

-Workout on yourself, doing the deeper work and have an amazing relationship later

-Grow individually in order to grow collectively

-Reciprocation and labouring in prayer

-You can together again or grow for someone else

-Grow for yourself of which Z did.

-The opportunity presented itself and we are together again.

-Heal from everything from childhood trauma

-Men are simple. They mean what they say. They say what they mean. They are not like us. They are minimal effort. Easy life. No stress.

-Have an accountability partner - coach and a counsellor

-Love full and be myself, it exposes people

-LOVE AND ENVIRONMENT

-BE HONEST

-ALWAYS KNOW I DID WHAT I NEEDED TO DO

-MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS A PRIORITY AND SANITY

-WRITE A LETTER WHEN COMMUNICATING SOMETHING SERIOUS!!

FREE CLASSES FROM UDEMY

- Stop the cinderella fantasy of an incompatible person that has not worked on their internal selves to be the ideal partner.

- It takes work for the relationship to work

- Move from being in love with a goose bumps man but with empty character. I cannot fall in love with a high

- Remember the kindness (the soft skills of a person)

- Expect vast differences and do not attack the person

- Do not run away rather have relationship skills

- Do not attack, fix, control rather share and embrace