A letter of appreciation to you!!

If you told me 3 months ago that I would voluntarily submitted to a man, I would have said, "You lie". My independence and past traumas sometimes got in the way.

I marvel at your gentle, corrective and yet inclusive leadership. You set a right tone for your home. Providing guidance for our everyday life. You have a way of making me listen and see things from your perspective without disregarding my thoughts nor my voice. You have a way making me de-learn and re-learn things the correct way (making reference to your recent take on intimacy as therapy rather performance). Very soft and gentle yet so stern in discipline.

I am in awe of how your "Yes is a Yes and your No is a No". You a man of straight paths. Very loving, sacrificial and strong. In all of that you are emotionally mature and available. I love you Jotela, Khathithi, Mnangwe. No special reason, I just thought you should know.